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Good gift giving is an art. The perfect present can lift mood or improve a relationship. It can repair a wrong doing, or simply remind a loved one that you care.16. ? We spoke to some experts to help us make a simple guide to gifting.

¡ïDon't add a small gift to a big gift

17. ? Some flowers to go with a bottle of grand French champagne (ÏãéÄ)? Don¡¯ t .When we receive gifts, we tend to unconsciously average out their value, so a small gift attached to a big one will hurt the latter¡¯s influence.

¡ïGift experiences rather than things

A brand new iPhone becomes old fast. But a dream vacation or seeing your favorite artist in concert will give you memories that last forever. ¡°Experiences often have more thought gone into them.18. . We might remember the tablet that a friend or a loved one has bought us, but not as much as a two-week holiday to Florida- the memories and the emotional attachment are greater than to a physical object,¡±explained Farrelly.

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Let s put it very simply: buy things that your receiver would buy for themselves. That might seem obvious.19. . People tend to use gifts as jokes, encouragements to change one's ways, or to signal something about themselves rather than providing happiness to the receiver.

The best way to get it right is to ask the frank question, \¡ï 20.

The last rule is a no-brainer: remember the gift of giving. A study finds that spending money on others promotes happiness. The good feelings you may experience from giving someone a gift they love may also last longer than spending money on ourselves. A. Be generous enough

B. Is that always the way people do C. So are there a set of rules to follow D. And they create more vivid memories E.But it happens far less than we' d like F.Spend more on others than on yourself G.Do you attempt to add a tie to an expensive shirt

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Empathy£¨¹²Ç飩, the ability to understand other people, has dropped sharply among college students over the past 10 years. 16. Turn on the TV, and you¡¯re showed with news and reality shows full of people, fighting, competing, and generally treating one another with no respect. Human beings learn by example and most of the

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examples on TV are anything but empathetic. 17.

Having relationships with other people is an important part of being human and having empathy is decisive to it. Researchers have also found that the empathetic teenagers are more likely to have high self-respect. Besides, empathy can be a cure for loneliness, sadness, anxiety and fear.18. Many top companies report hut empathy is one of the most important things they expect from new managers. 19. Apparently, empathy is n kind of ¡°emotional intelligence¡± that will help us achieve it.

Then, 20. For starters, let down your guard and really listen to others. One doesn¡¯t develop empathy by having a lot of opinions and doing a lot of talking. To really develop empathy, you¡¯d better volunteer at a nursing home or a hospital, join a club or a team that has a diverse membership, have a ¡°sharing circle¡± with your family, or spend time caring for pets at an animal shelter. A. How can we take advantage of empathy? B. Empathy is even an indication of a good leader. C. What¡¯s the best way to improve empathy?

D. There are good reasons not to follow those bad examples. E.Today, people spend more time alone rather than join clubs.

F.That might be because so many people have replaced face time with screen time. G.Academics are vital but without emotional intelligence , you won¡¯t be successful in life.

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With high rents and low wage growth, it's hardly surprising that young adults increasingly rely on parents for financial support. 16. A survey last year estimated that the $500 billion in financial help that parents give adult children is double what those same parents manage to save for retirement. Nearly 75% parents reported they put their adult kids' needs ahead of retirement.

17. The less you have saved for retirement, the more likely you will feel money-stressed in retirement---that' s not the goal, right? ¡ªand you may end up needing to rely on your kids for help in your later years. That' s surely not an outcome the entire family wants.

The decision to provide financial support for an adult child is, of course, personal. That said, if you have even the tiniest worries about retirement security, you owe it to your entire family to reconsider your support. Not overnight, but by setting a timeline expectation for when your child will be independent. 18.

Let adult kids contribute to family expenses. Once an adult child has a job, even if they are still living at home, it's time to have them participate in paying bills. At least, they should pay their share of a family cellphone plan.

19. Helping an adult child get established is one thing, but often help can extend into financing a nicer ¡ª than ¡ª needed lifestyle. For example, give money for groceries so they don't exist on a poor diet. 20. However, buying for a new car (which should be a used car) or contributing to rent for their own place (rather than shared) is you not setting smart limits.

Anyway, you must have enough savings to take care of yourself. A. Set limits on what you will help with. B. Make a major financial sacrifice for adult kids.

C. Besides, helping rent a shared apartment is also reasonable. D. While the support is financial, we' re not talking pocket money.

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